I thought it would be appropriate to kick off this new blog with my favorite word “Fearless”. It might be my favorite, or one of my favorites, and forever lives vibrantly on my wrist as a constant reminder. But it doesn’t mean that I am a fearless person. It is a reminder to myself to face my fears and not listen to that nagging voice inside of my head that tells me I can’t do something…or that I shouldn’t do something…or what will people think if I do the thing (whatever it might be)?
Joy Villa once told me that fear stands for False Evidence Appearing Real. And in that moment a lightbulb went off. When did I start becoming so fearful? A big part of it comes from my Boomer parents and grandparents before them, who were always the most concerned with what other people might think. I was raised to suffer in silence. To put on a show for others when I was crumbling inside. Can you relate? I hope not, but if you do, then I want you to know that I see you and I understand.
I have always been one of those people who isn’t afraid to take risks. And I have gone through periods where I’ve battled the mental demons (and sometimes real people) who told me that I couldn’t or shouldn’t follow my dreams.That I wasn’t smart enough, or pretty enough or there were people who were better than me. And the truth is – yes there are and there always will be. But despite this, and maybe it’s because I’m part stubborn Italian and all Aquarius, I have been someone who has created by own path. I started a new magazine with a new concept that didn’t exist. I started a public relation company because of 9/11 PTSD issues that made it difficult to work in an office. And I started a television show on New12+. I did all of this with an idea, a passion and the drive of a steam engine. And I was fearful. But I also know that the outcome of not taking the risk would be far worse.
So I want to start here with Fearless February. I want you to know that you can do anything. It may be hard and it may be scary, but that’s what makes it worthwhile. Have you thought of what that might be? Maybe it’s starting a business or changing careers. Perhaps you want to go back to school or learn a new sport. If I can ever help you or give you guidance, please don’t hesitate to reach out. My wish for you is that you start your fearless journey this month, one step at a time.
Be seen, be heard and always be fearless!
~Piper